Re:LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP..COPING UP?! - 2009/01/19 12:44
hi to both of you (jose and jaizel)...this 24th will be my 8th months here in kuwait. what can i say? still confuse, afraid and dont know what i really want...
I want to share to you what happened from the past few months. Last December i asked one important questions to my bf..." i am giving you six months to enjoy being a bachelor" and he was shocked..and i was disappointed... (but it was just a test, coz i want to know what will be his reactions...and what i witnessed was enough for me to give him up)... I didnt talk to him for a couple of days, nor sending him the usual "kmusta ka" text mssg. and i ready myself for a big decision..to let him go and start finding my own luck here in kuwait. I gave him the freedom to be with someone else that will make him happier..IGAVEUP! and never sent any single mssg after then.
but i was surprised when i saw the changes on him. maybe he realized things. i started receiving consistent goodnight mssg which is unusual, he calls me when he misses me, he insists to chat with me whenever he finds time (to think that his work is really time demanding), bottom line is i really appreciate lahat ng effort..and i am thanking god for opening his heart on me...
right now, i am going with the flow. i learned to live with missing someone and having in a long distance relationship.."its not so hard, all i have to do is LIVE, BREATH, CLOSE MY MIND, TALK AND WALK..BUT NEVER FEEL..."
I AM NOT STILL READY TO ENTERTAIN..MY BOSS ALWAYS TELLS ME TO STAY AWAY FROM STRANGERS AND TAKE CARE OF MYSELF. MYSELF IS STILL CLOSE TO PUBLIC. eheheh!
Jose, i know you and you saw me already...
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We haven't heard from you... what's wrong? Have I bothered you with any of my words?? hope not !!
Anyway... Do you agree with Jayzel?? Cause she seems she is an Anti-Man
Well, if Jayzel is reading this note.. allow me to tell you that "love" never hurts... Love is beauty.. so how may "Beauty" hurt anyone??
I don't know.. but sure you have your own issues against love and man... but for sure, one day.. you'll dream to have a family.. kids.. a home.. stability.. someone who cares about you and give you all this.... and this will start from loving a "Man"
By the way, I wish I can meet in person "Mariko"... love to see her face and talk to you.. so any chance??
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Re:LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP..COPING UP?! - 2008/11/20 10:42
" haven't you wished once for a man to hold
you, Hug you, kiss you while sleeping... someone to tell you, I love you??? "
I'm not ready to be hurt... So, I'm not wishing nor dreaming for that someone to comes in my life...
hehehehehehehehehe...........
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"Women can live without Men but Men can't live without Women..."
but have you imagined life without "man" at all?? for Men, women is the very sweet vanilla flavor... but for women, men is the spices and the aroma...
You know, I'm a very romantic person.. I guess! but love and romance are under the category of "Life Pleasure".. this is in my opinion.. I may be mistaken !!
So, love is pleasure... and the feelings that come with this pleasure are the ties to commit which prolong any relation... and we call it "loyalty" !!
No one is perfect and everyone will search for pleasure and love... if you don't, then sorry to say.. you have no feelings. By the way, I'm not referring here to "sex" when I say pleasure...
So in a way you are right, "Women can live without Men but Men can't live without Women..", but when both live together.. for each other.. then here is "ultimate pleasure" and yes you are living you life...
I believe you are single... living and surviving alone.. haven't you wished once for a man to hold you, Hug you, kiss you while sleeping... someone to tell you, I love you???
anyway... you are the one who may survive without man !! for me I will always seek for love
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Re:LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP..COPING UP?! - 2008/11/20 07:26
Guys, let me introduce myself too...
I'm Jayzel, 23 years of age, I'm been here in Kuwait since August of 2006, I'm employed in a Private Bilingual School and Very much Single but I'm not Looking........hehehehehehe
I'm into sport, Volleyball. I'm a player of Al-Tasheelat Team in Filipino Womens Volleyball League..
I agree with Jose's opinion, he's right when he says that men will always look for the love that they can see everyday......
"Women can live without Men but Men can't live without Women, I am right??????"
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5 reasons why we should be in a long distance love - 2008/11/20 07:15
They say that "Distance makes the heart grow fonder". I never truly understood the meaning of that statement until I experienced it first hand. Believe it or not, ladies and gentlemen, a long distance relationship can be much greater than a close one. How in the world is this possible? I'm about to tell you.
What if you were to run into somebody on your vacation and fall head over heals in Love. He or she tells you that they live in California but you live in New York. One part of you is saying "damn, too far", and the other part is saying "maybe this could work". Here are 5 reasons why you should consider a long distance relationship.
1. Distance will make you appreciate one another more. Since your partner is not in your face every day you're forced to use a little something most people tend to neglect now days, Imagination. Think about all the fun things you will do together when you see each other again. Turn on some romantic music before bed, stare out at the night sky and dream.
2. It's a good thing that trust is no option in this situation. That's one thing you can write off of your list and not have to worry about.
3. Distance from each other will give you more time to work on your career, exercise or spend more time with your family. Think about all the things you could accomplish in a day. I noticed that when I'm in a relationship with a girl that is conveniently near me, my motivation to exercise or weight lift decreases slightly, especially in a bad relationship. Spending time with your family is very healthy for any relationship. It makes you stronger. You are definitely going to need money to travel so this is also a good time to work hard at your career.
4. Planning your next meeting is always exciting. It gives you something to look forward to and a chance to escape from your daily life. If traveling starts to get expensive, work together to find a cheaper means of travel and split the cost from time to time. I like to think of it as an adventure and at the end of the adventure is your wonderful treasure.
5. A long distance relationship can be a lot stronger that a normal one. Getting through a long distance relationship can be very rewarding for both of you. Think about all the courage it takes to trust somebody thousands of miles away and still be positive. Give yourselves a round of applause. You now share a strength that is impenetrable.
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